Pillow Fort

[Sweetintoxikation]

Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry for you and your family Wolf. *hugs*

[lectral]

I got home from town this evening, and one of the kittens I’ve been trying to befriend (as of yesterday, we were up to 4 random kittens having shown up in the past couple weeks)… was lying in the driveway outside the gate, apparently hit by a car. No clue why he had gone that far out. He was finally starting to warm up and come close when I was outside too :/

[Angel_of_Music]

Oh my...I'm so sorry for your losses Wolfy. That just...that just hits too hard to home for me in a way. I will pray to the Night Mother that nothing else happens to those in your family when it shouldn't.

Awww, I'm sorry to hear that Lectral

[Operetta]

We lost our final dog this evening. We took Han in when my mom when into skilled care. He was 15 and completely deaf but seemed to be doing well. Not really sure what happened. He just wasn't responsive. Rasa took him to an emergency vet, and he passed just as she got him there.

[wolfrysk]

I’m so sorry Rasa and Retta -hugs tight-

[lectral]

Awwww, I’m so sorry

[Moophles]

Aw man... that's a lot of bad news for so many... I'm sorry you guys, I hope things get way better for you all :< *gives everyone hugs* I made sure I read through everything I missed recently, I feel for you guys...I hate losing pets (Who am I kidding, we all know pets are family PFFT) and close family members... it's very painful but I wish you all healing and much love. <3

[Sweetintoxikation]

My thoughts and prayers out to you Retta and Rasa. That's hard. <3

[melodysangel]

Man, soo much happening. I dont like adding to the pile but I think I need to let some of this out. Ill try to be to the point

My brother got into a crash today. Im worried. He gets suicidal or depressed easy, that car was one thing keeping him happy (it was one he wanted for awhile and he just got it a few months ago) and hes a guy and doesnt want to go to the hospital, even though he really should.

Hes a responsible driver. I want to emphasize that! Unfortunately the car in front of him was not, atleast in this case and from what was told to me.

Hes got some stuff going on that would really need a chest xray. Im stressing out.

Thats just the newest thing ontop of the pile of 'crap happening to my family and friends involving a hospital'

*sighs* I hope ill be ok. Ill get a chance to talk to him in person some time this weekend since its my birthday on sunday. I dont know what I want or whats going on. Im just fragmented, trying to hold it together for everyone else.

[Operetta]

Sorry to hear that MA. I hope he does go to the hospital and that everything turns out okay.

[Sweetintoxikation]

I agree, that's awful MA. I'm so sorry you and your family (especially) your brother are going through that. I do hope his x-rays and things within the hospital are all clear soon <3

[Minkey55]

Well, strap in this is a long one.

It has not been a good week or so for me.
On the 14th i had a rare day off on a Saturday and it was nice weather so i just opened the curtains and lay in the sun beams on the bed reading a book till midday.
As i went downstairs i noticed it was strangely quiet.
Normally when i go down our stairs the ferrets run around like mad wanting attention. nothing. Went into the front room where their cage is and noticed Chomper at the top looking at me from his blanket and Dash on the bottom tier, I thought going potty.
I grabbed the bowl of food from the kitchen and went back to notice Dash had not moved.
Opening the cage Chomper went for the food but Dash was still. He had passed away. No reason why, he was healthy as far as we know and the Friday was his normal happy self.
Didn't think it could get worse than that until Thursday.
My dad was rushed to hospital at 2 am with back pain. My mother didn't think to tell any of us until the morning.
I was sitting at home, sorting socks of all things, and my sister called in a panic saying "I'm coming to pick you up are you at work" i said no I'm home on holiday why.
She had got a call from the hospital dad was not going to make it and come quick. I was still in my pj's so i told her to go on with mom and me and my partner would meet her at the hospital.
I don't remember getting changed or getting there but we got there to say goodbye.
He had an aortic aneurysm the size of a tennis ball between his heart and stomach. it burst in surgery they fixed it but then it ruptured lower.
This kept happening and sadly after 5 hours of surgery, they called it as everything they tried failed. His veins apparently looked like Swiss cheese.
He was on life support but it was only a matter of time. He managed to hang on till my middle sister arrived but he passed on at 3.30 pm.
The good part is he went without pain and quickly. He was terrified of getting dementia and losing himself. His two older brothers (my uncles) both have it.
The oldest uncle was in the same hospital, Dad had seen him before going into surgery.
So two deaths in less than a week and I'm not sure what to feel. at the moment i just feel numb.
Sorry for dumping all this here but i needed to let everything out.

[wolfrysk]

Oh Minkey. I’m so, so sorry. -hugs tight- I wish I had something more to offer than that, but my thoughts are with you and your family. We love you

[tierasa]

Minkey, so sorry for your losses. Retta and I can most definitely sympathize with you. If you need an ear, you know how to find us. I hope you can find the comfort and closure you need.

[Operetta]

So sorry for your losses. *hugs*